Heat up, but don't mess up

I felt a sudden whim inside me to start blogging. It's my first time -- except those that were required in one of our major subject of course..haha! Maybe because some of my friends have blogs that's why I find myself blogging too. And adding up to that, random thoughts are popping out from my mind, so, I thought maybe with this, my mind would not be overloaded with those. 

Blog...blog...blog...-->a sort of relief from stress maybe-->emotional release. :p

Okay. Enough of the introduction. I'll move on with my real purpose why I created this.

A big part of our lives are problems. They just seem so inevitable no matter how much we try to get away from them. They keep on bursting out from nowhere just to ruin your day. Well, I supposed I already knew (though I admit not entirely) what to do when problems butt in my way. It's as simple as laugh it out, or give it a smile. And most importantly, PRAY. :) But then, don't expect that it will just  go away in an instant. If I want them to, I have to face them. Take the risk. Be brave. Face the consequences. Somehow, I'll be able to learn something from it. Then it's done.

But things weigh differently; the way people see things. It might look easy and simple for me, but for others? It's complicated -- very much complicated. I'll share to you a certain scenario wherein a person has a problem...in life (who doesn't?). It seems like his problems got piled up 'til he no longer knew what to do. I'm trying my best to help him cheer up a bit. I was telling him that he'll only make things worse if he himself is not going to help himself. I'm right isn't? Honestly, you would look like kinda pathetic...really.

I was trying my best to stay calm to not escalate the warm atmosphere of the earth that might explode in any minute if I would also heat up. So I'd rather stay cool, listen, and give advice. But he was really on the edge of his emotions. He's really in a bad mood and it's like he's carrying the whole world upon his shoulders that's why he doesn't know what to do, which is, for me, same old statement that is so absurd. And to cut the story short, the night ended, well, not that good, but not that bad either. Somewhere in between. So, after that, I was thinking how will he be able to solve or face his problems with that kind of attitude. He got himself all messed up.


Think first before you react -- that's how it should be. Don't let your emotions get ahead of you because when it does, you'll never know what might happen, and I'm sure you wouldn't like it. Come to think of it, how can you think properly if you're at the peak of your emotions? You might even utter some words even though you didn't mean it. Remember, you cannot draw back words after you said it. Whether you mean it or not, it will leave a mark on a person. Take good caution of your words before you say it. Try to relax. Release the tension. When you feel okay to handle things, then that's the time you think on what to do. That's how I am. "ihatequotes" on Twitter inspires me in some way with the quotes they're tweeting. It talks about life, love, and others. You might want to follow it if you have a Twitter account. :)


And finally, to end my first blog ever, I saw this post from Kuya Norman Mendoza in Facebook ---> SPEAK WHEN YOU’RE ANGRY AND YOU WILL MAKE THE BEST SPEECH YOU’LL EVER REGRET. – Laurence J. Peter


There you have it. Random thoughts of mine. It's all...Me. :)